The way teaches the alarming

Repetitive period we teach children what the surveys to see what cool kids, cube, painting, music, comic books, ... then move across the stage to create excitement for the child. When children are the focus or interest do, should not interrupt the middle that let kids do, though at the time preparing to eat or what. To create excitement for the child should compliment older than cooking, because if the parents don't want the child to do something, then the child will naturally have no confidence to do that anymore.

Parents avoid the mistakes after teaching children:

1. Prohibits the

The first error is the parent seems to be too much for the baby and the mouth always complain: "Please don't hurt me", "don't pull the cat's tail" ...

Solution: undesirable a baby does not listen to my parents but my parents said "no" will frequently cause the baby to become the bottle with the word. Moreover, parents often tell kids not to do something, but not just for what the kid can do. So, save the word "no" for the real situations of danger (when the baby back near the power outlet or eat the spider network, for example).

Focus said with the baby things that you want your baby to do. For example, instead of saying: "don't stand in the bath", you can say: "you sit down, slimy". Then, when you see a kid sitting down, can praise: "you sit down then, good boy" to reinforce good behavior.

2. Use the rocketing roi

A guest who people you considered not acceptable but you need this to "treat" the baby House. So then you don't be surprised when the baby also responds in the same way (against) when triggered.

Solution: Have a boomerang effect in teaching children: When you generically baby, baby can also leave General mom. This emotion on a powerful and difficult to control than most, is when the baby grew up. But of course any parents can hardly avoid resentment. If you missed the invitation, should honestly apologize and fix later.

Let the baby know why my parents left so angry. At the same time, learn to express emotions more pleasant with her when you disappointed.

3. To intervene when the kid is playing

You see children chasing each other around the House and immediately shouted.

Solution: learn to ignore selectively. Often, the parents found it necessary to "xen" into your baby's story but the story just makes both mother and baby in the same tired. Remember that babies do a lot of the "uncomfortable" because babies are discovering new skills. The baby is due or are looking for attention.

The reaction of the parents is the best: if safety is not the issue, try to wait and monitor the baby. If the baby 3 years are curious with the camera then don't rush to scream. Be patient see what will happen. Many cases, the baby will stop. His mother will avoid a general battle yelled at.

4. Just say no

You ask the baby off the television go but still watch cartoons because faint reminder of her mother.

Solution: Please persevere, for baby a second chance, the tough little reminder out of hours watching television; or is the baby itself off tv or I will do this. To comply with the rule, the requirement of parents should be clear and the mother was not breaking them.

5. time penalties are not effective

When you catch your baby to 3 years are about their rooms after the baby boy brother, start beating the top down to the floor.

The solution: take a little time to review the penalty. Baby time forced to stand in the corner of the penalty (or about private rooms) is to give the baby to calm down, not a punishment. Some babies respond well to mother's request about the private room for me. But some other baby's strong protest. Plus, it also does not teach the baby how to behave to how make my mother happy.

Even better, you can sit quietly together baby when babies were fine. If the baby swim, please baby baby to hug and closing was calm. Once your baby comfortable, new mother should start explaining why her behavior is wrong. At the same time, discussions of the same baby to find out how to behave more suitable; for example: "I will do if I jerk my pen still Milo?"=