What to do when caught the chat sex?

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Whether your child is sending sex messages?

Perhaps you hear little information about teen "Self-indulgence", "Breeze", "hot pictures" c on the network. Could each read the news, and her husband still shook his head and said that world on a crazy island. May, in the end you transient thought, whether his teenage son has "damaged" so no, then quickly whisked away.

If your child has a cell phone , sure you will. And if your child is messaging, you can send or receive messages containing sexual elements. You can never know that.

Remember that the children of us cannot remember your life will be like without the internet. They are born with a phone and a computer mouse in hand, they live and breathe with these real separation. This means they are masters in the erase traces of the sexually suggestive message before parents have doubts.

Whether you trust yourself convince yourself that your child never done anything similar, you should still prepare psychologically if the situation does not expect that to happen. This means you need to have a difficult conversation with your child, can begin with the question: "have you ever got nude pics or hot scenes?"

Your children will surely assert that no, even told you that "parents insane?" You have the sensitivity in the getting to know you're lying? This is the situation for you to try out your child's reaction, and observe the view, that embarrassing and stressful.

If think that child you are sending/receiving of messages containing sexual elements or can do it in the future, please consider the following:

1. Talk with your

A frightening thought for many of us, but that is one of the unavoidable responsibility of the parents. Talk to your child about the long-term consequences may occur of the exchange of messages, photo hot eroticism.

Talking about the recipient can toss the photo sensitivity of the internet up and adversely affect the child's honor. In case you do so with the personal information of others, that is illegal.

2. Set of rules

You have to let your children driving zone they say? You have to ride a motorcycle without a helmet? Why you again give you a dangerous stuff like mobile phones that don't set the rules?

Start the test phone (Yes, you have to learn how to do so) and browse the information in there on a regular basis.

3. Take back your mobile phone

There is fierce too? Yes, but in some cases this is necessary, as these other projects are not effective. If you do not believe me, nor out of control activities, can give you a tool that can prejudice to yourself and others?!

If you have a mobile phone, well, give me a phone, with a minimalist function and call, could not connect to the internet.

However many parents does not restrain the child, and the famous Chase you after you do bad things on the outside. The baby is great age listen to then feel hurt associated leave 2-3 days, even for families tired looking.

Instead of fixing the mistakes you've made, then more people have pushed you to a more serious mistakes. The society is now so complex that children could fall into the wrong hands at any time. If no physical harm then can also be affected mentally, lifestyle, etc.. If not artfully, tenderly, then parents will create a gap with the child that may never heal.

Raising teaching the teen in the world today is not an easy task. As a parent, you need to be awake to realize the problems you are experiencing, as well as strong and resolute to help your child overcome the pitfalls on the way.=