The error of single mothers raising children

1. Lie with the child about his father

The mother needs the truth about the father of the child. Please wait for an appropriate time to talk to your baby about his father and the relationship of subjects you and him. You can give reason why the two of you break up or you have used a medical method to be able to have children. You will never know the child will react to the truth or the truth but it would always expresses the attitude with you when you lie. The most important thing should be made which is the love for your child is always constant and you will never give up the child.

2. the reluctant pm the son

When the nhõng nhẽo, desire or require something, though unknown is not recommended but with the thought "her kids underprivileged" and your feelings for me too much of you reluctant to PM you. The action does not follow reason like this very dangerous, sometimes can make you regret. Not only that, this will create for your bad habits. When your child has grasped the terms, they will keep begging, crying and promised myself to do themselves until there was something new they want.

3. To refuse help from the outside

Don't try to become an extraordinary woman. Be open with help from outside. You can always request to save your parents or siblings to get the help. Let the person you are child care if they really desire it, don't just keep being her own child. When you encounter difficulties in educating your child, ask for help and no one will refuse to spend time with you.

4. no balance between work and life

Parenting alone is extremely hard but if just sitting home hugged without the external Exchange or do not have a steady job are extremely dangerous. You need to arrange to have just had a good career-it is also the premise of helping your child get the most attentive care just for you to see her life balance.

5. Unbalanced Father role-mother in the family

This is the hardest thing, you need to adjust harmoniously to teach the stars for good. Sometimes you are too tough, rigid, aiming to avoid the mistakes that forgot the picture a mother Hien from altruistic, or vice versa. This makes your child gets education "skewed" and not influence or for the development of the baby.

You need to balance parenting way, calm look-yeah the same circumstances of his feelings. Even though they know are more difficult when alone you carry everything, but does not mean you are exposed.

6. To yourself forever singles

The raising children alone and celibacy is not a logical way. Don't let your child bring in guilt because you cause you don't want to go find your own happiness. Try to arrange and take the outside date to search for his half. If for some reason you don't want to have a new relationship, you should go to meet friends. Find a babysitter for the time you are out or ask for the help of his parents. Do not take care of the needs of the self is also one of the serious mistakes that single mothers face.

The child can become your life, is the source of your fun. But if you avoid the mistakes on here then you will see that the life of a single mother who is also excellent over very very much!=

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