Stuck because my people love proposal

I really stuck ...

I was born in an ordinary family in Phu Xuyen district, Ha Noi. My family has 2 brothers, I'm following you, I was a child this year at University to build the second year. Also this year I have almost 30 years and is going to marry early next year, when my lover over the age of 24.

I love people who love each other and have been for 2 years, and we're also very fit in everything. She is a preschool teacher, did I do the staff for a private business. But I fret for now, families who love me have 2 daughters, her sisters were married in forever, so take advantage of her children-lover I want to finish my wedding family will stay away always, to my wife's aging parents care, and inherited his house she always leave.

Of course, my wife I would endorse the decision of the parents, and wants me to accept this condition. I also love his wife, and to understand the current situation of the family is his wife, should also not be a problem if the right in law. My wife's family is also no one outside his wife's parents were elderly, so nothing that complicated.

The thing, my parents, when it comes to having them jump's brother-in-law in having up and vehemently with thousand reasons "according to steering the boat, daughter by her husband", thus forcing the wife to follow me home, not have exceptions. Moreover, my parents also claim that, in man's life "Dog chui ROAR kitchen cabinet", so humiliating. They not only look at the gossip, that my life after this also not be comfortable, not eating, said not to be said, ...

I love her, but don't want any curious with parents

Then I was eldest of the family with 2 brothers, should have to be responsible to serve nursing elderly parents. Moreover, now the brother I go to College away from home, so my parents also need to have it leak water, rice ... and my parents claimed, forced to marry a wife and home in certain rather than in law. If deliberately not listening to parents, then don't ever treat parents as parents.

Standing in front of this situation, I do not know how to do. On one side are parents who spawned her, with her polite, also adopted a party lover and her parents, it is hard to know which party over party.

I also do not know if I will have to handle this situation, as if hearing the parents lay then I will lose the love with a girl that I loved throughout the last 2 years. But if she accept and follow the request of the family she is in law, I would be real studious child with parents.

I have also confided this to her lover, but she don't suffer, because that my parents were young, while her parents were elderly, need care for help moron. She is also responsible for selfish and I dare not decide yet, proves her love. And then getting past anger, blame and demanded a separation.

I actually found myself deadlock does not know what to do for persons both doubles lines. What should I do now, you, the waitress?.=