Engraved in the heart of the '3-3-3' principle, modern women do not hesitate to live with their mother-in-law

1. Living with her mother-in-law on the principle of "three more"

That is listening more, asking more and talking more. She often grumbled and did not interrupt her, going away, often calling and asking. Whenever you meet something big and small, try to talk to her. Maybe your mother-in-law can't help you, but talking to each other often increases the feelings between the two.

2. Learn how to integrate

Public life is not simple, just like your new child, going to school. You need time to learn to mingle with strangers. For example, the arrangement of furniture, living, eating, hobbies, habits. You learn to adapt, doesn't mean you have to change yourself into a completely different person. For example, when the husband's family eats light, if you want to eat salty, make your own rations so as not to affect the general meal, it is also a reasonable solution.

3. Always put yourself in the position of mother-in-law

Although the bride does not give birth to a son, she should also put herself in the position of a mother-in-law to understand her mother's mind and thoughts. You may not like your mother-in-law because she is too fastidious, but consider that positive aspect that she always tries to cultivate and let her children be happy. Simply think, your life will be softer. At that time, sometimes I wanted to "get angry" at the difficult words of my mother-in-law, sometimes I smiled in my heart because I thought of a scowl like I was playing my mother's movie. Just like that, every day will go smoothly with a short response that is concise, "yes". Perhaps her mother-in-law always loves an obedient daughter-in-law, knows what and always loves her son and grandchildren.

4. Principle "3 no"

- Never get involved in her husband's housework

Because of my intervention can make the situation more confusing. Her husband's job is the work of her husband and her husband's parents. When needed, the two people will offer support. If you want to help, only support by action, do not contribute because it will make the situation more complicated.

- Do not possess husband

In front of her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law should not show intimate gestures, overly affectionate with her husband because her mother-in-law can feel jealous or unhappy because her son is wholeheartedly caring for many years. wife.

- No more than losing to her mother-in-law

New strawberries remember, not 'better than losing', calculating with your mother-in-law because the results will never be the same as what you wanted. When you lose, it is not easy to understand your mother-in-law. Therefore, being a daughter-in-law, though having her own opinions, there are many ways to express her views. 'Obediently' when making strawberries does not mean that you have to humble yourself or become inferior but know things and be humble in time.