His work taught me home

1. child's wishes and understanding of you

Missing you all want to go to sleep a little later than the specified time? Or you want a trip to play both in the early spring? Regardless of what the desired son, find out before asking the home work help you.Not only learn these things meet the desire of children to create encouragement, encouraging your work, you also need to search for sources myself.

Obviously you have to understand that, you will not do anything as you, but in return, you will not have to do that anymore. This not only helps you reduce the pressure of the home but also help children know how to take care of themselves-a very important skill for life.

2. find the right job

Nobody likes boring chore, but in General, there are also things we see "bored" and the "less than". With your child, too, sometimes with them, to MOP the kitchen floor will "enjoy" rather than having to bathe.

You can start this by up a list of chores that need the help, then along the look back at all the work to make the final selection.

May also need to balance the level of the job, for example, the MOP the kitchen floor can be equivalent to the level with the two other parts, the trash can is only half the job part only. You can join the see through all the sections to see our perspective with that like you don't. From there, you will easily assigned to plan the work for the baby.

3. Given the specific requirements

Record the specific requests about the work up the paper, if you express your questions or controversy about the job they have to do, you can just enter the paper notes and tell them, clearly that's part of what we've got to do it.

You need to clearly and exactly what to do and what they will receive upon completion of the work. In this issue, the more you care, the details as possible. For example: "If the laundry, after finishing folding the map before 4 p.m. on Saturday, I will be going to play the same evening and return home before 11 p.m. ...".

Song, of course, you probably should also not expect children to do everything as good as your desire, the largest purpose still is just how the child can complete the job at acceptable levels and you don't have to do it again.

Labor variable into the joy of the child

Also the people who have young children, psychological expert Wu Ming Wei-Director of consulting and education company Welink-conception of every Member of the family all have a responsibility in making its nest builds; great work, great small works. As such, he has set for his early self clean toys, dressing himself; to shoes, clothing right where the regulations; know sort neatly blanket pillow after sleeping. When your a little larger, I taught my mother cleaning the side of rice, wiping tables and chairs when done eating; then teach your child to wash, pick vegetables, cooking rice ... Now the daughter he had 8 years and do everything pretty well.

According to him, the important thing in youth education method is to turn labor into joy, pride of the child. Parents should not be too perfectionist, demanding that the older must work perfectly as his home. For example, when children wash the rice, has made swing fucking rice or pour water out then don't twit, from from young will know and do things better.

The two-week experiment

No system can operate smoothly in an overnight. So, you ask for "personnel training project" this at least 2 weeks, and then evaluate the level of success or failure.

The "training", can sit back with her to talk about the things you are satisfied or not satisfied, and edit if necessary.=

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