If you do not want to burn your child's future, parents absolutely do not ban the following 3 things

1. Children are prohibited from expressing their emotions

When a child stumbles, sobbing, or similar situations, parents should never shout at him: "Don't cry, stop!" Children are too young, psychologically incomplete, firm. If parents forbid children to express their feelings, it will make them become local and frustrated. Over time, it will become emotionless, even emotional disorder, selfish, more harmful than alienation and unwillingness to trust and close to parents. Forcing children not to express their emotions is one of the reasons for children 'low self-esteem.

2. Prohibit children from being close to themselves

Many parents, when busy, often tell their children: "Mom is very busy, do not disturb me, I will punish you now" or "I forbid you to come in, be quiet immediately". Children who are hyperactive can easily mess with their parents' work, but that is not a good reason to prohibit them from being close to themselves. Otherwise, children will be more reluctant to talk to parents, especially the necessary issues, troublesome and unhappy things. Gradually, children will become weak, worried, afraid, closed with relationships around.

3. Prohibit scared children

In the heart of every child, there are fears. Even with very small adults, such as fear of ghosts, fear of the dark, fear of noise . However, parents should not be so, forcing children to be strong and dismissing fear with encouraging words like : 'Nothing to be afraid of' or: 'Why are you so shy?' will make children narcissistic, hurt self-esteem. Instead, parents "share" their fears with their children, and explain that they are completely harmless. Because aren't you feeling with your kids, and they can't hurt anyone?