What to do when your parents having stress?

Stress is not excluding anyone, even the new kindergarten age children can also meet. By when for exposure to new environments without parents adjacent can do children see fear, anxiety. When kids learn up to higher academic levels, the pressure from the school and from the external environment as well as the causes of stress for the child.

With the young rarely revealed the confidedher uneasiness with the parents about the things that make them angry, then the active role at this level is the paternity, motherhood. The thing to avoid at this absolute is to appease every bored child with candy, tv, game, for buying toys ... Because that is not the best way to relieve stress in your child, help the child get back the smile that just makes the permanent hose habit in young growing larger.

Instead, parents can have other ways to be more positive and makes you not become depression, excessive stress.

The first thing parents can do for you that is trying to stay calm, be patient and listen intently. Absolutely avoid judgmental attitudes, the blame, the teaching that child to do this, you have to do. Because that doesn't help for older Weirs but also the pressure on younger, makes the child more anxious and not want to mind the parents into the next.

Listen to the child with an attitude of openness and patience will probably take a bit of time, but don't be discouraged because this is an important step to help open young parents.

You can help the expression easily and express thoughts, his attitude by the question as: "seems like you feel sad because you don't choose the same side X, right?" or "I feel sad because his score no higher?"

After that, my parents let us talk about what you can do to feel better in that situation. Such as telling about the old days you were poor and your attitude at that point to the following test scores be raised ...

Or when a child has stress as being bullied, being yelled at, teachers being friends ridicule ... let's talk with children to help children find a way to solve the problem. While chatting, you can give hints to young to think of a few ideas for his problems. Parents can also help children think if necessary, but do not make the child everything.

When the kids find out ways to solve the problem, the child will feel confident in yourself, more boldly and more mature. From there, the stress, the anxiety that naturally also disappeared. With the solutions of the child that you believe are right, and you can express their concurred, in response. Or can suggest a solution by asking "what do you think if I do this ..."

To remember the parents should always express the mind to the force by giving the child see them have a friend always willing to spend time with them. So, if you feel your child seems bored, frustrated, tired or pressure, but do not want to speak out, take the child with you to do something, didn't like to teach your baby to make pies, craft, or stroll along baby pet care ... what simple ideas that can help your baby feel the parents like the ones you can and share all his anxiety.

The signs and symptoms of child depression

Not always easy to recognize when children are under stress. However, when the child again worry public triumphs, tension, stress usually have some expressions below:

The mood changed very often, children may be upset, tè beams, difficulty sleeping for a time.

Some children suffer from headaches or abdominal pain. Have the baby feel difficult to focus or couldn't complete assignments at school.

Some children prefer to be alone, do not care about what happens around.

Preschool years can stress manifest through these habits as sucking on hands, twisting the hair, the look of the nose. When stressed, children or have nightmares, always stick, parents overreact to small things picked up and study.

The older children can lie, or bullying others or proved.=