When two parents in 'the enemy'

Contradiction from mother 2

Every time seeing my wife breathing short than long or gulping tears because life in the family home to my husband too cramped, stuffy, England (home in the city of l. dd, Hai BA Trung district, Hanoi) always feel terrible.

Through nearly 40 years of living with the mother tongue, until this moment, still "suffering" she look, watch, to each individual glass eyes Ty should know his mother was the tough, difficult to make.

From small to large, two sisters he only knows obedience, obey the true path that my mother was defined rather than challenged half-sentence, go wrong half a step. Now through the years "tam set children's cross", was the father of two children, but where to go, what to do, what about ... you must report the full mother and follow the timetable laid out by her.

And since he married, the House has added a person must endure all that sticky, strict background of his mother, which is my sister Thuy, wife.

Friends until now still told Britain "cocoon" too so the new 30s forever families. And only you know the truth is not so. The "cocoon" here is your mother. Not a girlfriend from the time the level III to be college years he lead home can reach through her eyes.

Only has three sentences shavings, exposure to Italy several movements as she was able to get loads of bugs from the new big girl. Last year level III, the uk sees the memory thief a silhouette. But just when her press the Bell and met, I borrowed I booklet signal you to sit still in a room.

By the conflict that has brought the computer's "system" in which the two parents have never sat together was too 15 minutes and talk a way slide was rubble three sentences.

Alone she comes out the open door, his voice Stern, cold shades: "You go away then I. What is the name, the House where, what doctor to leave a message? ". Not the re face girlfriend nem cringe Hi out of the uk, sitting in the home also "sweaty pit" scared because a series of questions that parents are about to torture yourself.

After this he knows why she denied she is by her double high cheek, to her husband. And then you also have two incisor slightly away from each other, were she ... block the door, by the risk: "after this there to 99% it will give you" dumped ".

Until Thuy, girl "or thin nuts", have to take ... 11 the United States hands on the new dietary she Ying. And Thuy knows, about how the bride, she will have to start the series on "hold" with her husband.

National travel far in Ho Chi Minh City, Ho Chi Minh Thuy lament in the phone: "morning sun, I bring you buy certain dresses to wear to work, she stopped. She said you are away, you have to dress a little quarter-note. So you have to go back home to wear the black pants like every day ...

That would skirt is not Comin', huh? Truth is not understood her think again... "-" Then I put the skirt on the bag away. To you rather rather than to know how now "-the message Of presentation for my wife.

Each passing day, as he felt his wife's stamina is gradually exhausted. In addition to being the mother of my husband constantly "tweaking", "Snowman", he also felt the suffering mind of his wife when husband and mother to distance, to behave with minimal casualties daughter-in-law.

More seriously, there was a man standing in the Thuy, ready to haul, losing your wife out of her mother's grip round her husband. The person that no one else is the mother of his wife. If the uk's native language teacher since age 20, every word, action, jobs are out of the framework, rules, rituals, the mother-in-law again completely.

Home mom Thuy is near the train station. She traded in her daughter since the Dong Xuan market. Now she's relationship spread across the South in addition to the conflict by the North. "system" was that two parents have never sat together was too 15 minutes and talk a way slide was rubble three sentences.

Startled because once heard couch grandson nonsense, the British mother re face, when asked the main out her grandmother taught you stale. She catches his daughter right about suggestions with native language instantly.

But parents are always Thuy "dug" into what the teachers, principles too redundant in the home family son-in-law. Injured daughter struggled because of parenting , she saw available money, continually hiring maids help stupid girl.

But no one can stand the stern of mother-in-law Thuy took a week. Every time you see your daughter about breathing, crying, she "blood boil".  Have a spacious rest reserved for her daughter has married, she said: "What You have to bear the suffering.

Out of the House. The spouses the children out here in the mother house available for them, fly ". Thuy were so enraged co family home between her husband and her mother. To see his wife at risk for reclining on "phe" mother tongue, the uk was the fear of losing his wife.

Has many times unbearable "round kim her" mother's husband each day a squeeze, Thuy has hugged weeping about her grandmother made him take to appease, to explain to his wife about. Thuy is increasingly angry with her husband because he is too effeminate, weak, no voice, political views in the family caused his wife miserable.

The discord of the children, the British mother claimed to be married are unable to divorce him. However, the cause of dissension he caused, she does not recognize. On the contrary, the more she pushes the block conflict with parents up to a peak of stress.

That means the happiness of the couple to Britain as less. Thuy, the desire to escape the grip of the mother-in-law round to go with mother tongue as soon as possible. How to keep your wife and reconcile inconsistencies between the two British officers, family to the expert advice.

Own is a necessary solution.

According to the expert advice in Spiritual love consultation centre, the uk's story is also the story of many free man when is very strenuous and difficult to find in General as well as reconcile is the relationship between the two women extremely important in life are his mother and his wife.

However despite the difficult but nor is no solution to the problem of bride mother-in-law. Important is that the husband must be the person who always has a field, dexterity, flexibility, but when need must also be determined to find the solution to this delicate problem.

What the contradiction is bride mother-in-law ever remains. The reason leading to the bride's husband mother not happy about a lot of each other.

There could be big problems such as contradictions in opinions, lifestyles, disagreement in thought and conduct, and to very small things such as dress, living habits, hobbies ... all can lead to bumps, rice does not heal, not sweet soup between husband and mother bride.

In fact, people still say enter his custom, meaning the daughter married then also must have the acceptance and adjustments to adapt somewhat to the lifestyle, the Groove, the habit in her husband's family. By very difficult to change things has existed dozens of years ago when my husband stepped on the bride's home.

However the bride tune doesn't mean she must accept every request of that particular House was the mother of my husband.

If the requirements, wishes that go against the legitimate interests of the bride at the moment, more than anyone, the husband will have to stand out, sharing confidences with his mother to mother her husband can see and behave accordingly with daughter-in-law.

In the matter of the British families, the mother has the imposing, controls, catch the daughter-in-law to his discretion though it very ridiculous is hardly sympathetic. Over a little thing like the wife wearing a skirt to work that she does for her shows also had the intervening too deeply into the life of the couple.

Will definitely have a lot of unpleasant things that your wife had to endure over the years. The British themselves also have to comprehend his wife's suffering that does not know how to change the situation.

He is a dutiful son, dedication to their parents and is also a husband, a good father of his wife and child. The rounded filial is necessary but besides that you can't ignore love letters.

To solve the current problems between his mother and his wife in the uk desperately needs calm, flexible but resolutely. You need to analyze for your mother to see, besides the very good things that she did for the grandchildren, she also takes the tune about the thoughts, views to suit modern life.

I need to emphasize that, with you happy and warm in the family is the most important and must she as a mother would desire it more than anyone. Britain should also confided, share and encourage your wife to my sister more confidence and peace of mind to resolve this through the love of gain.

In past cases, share and analyse with the mother that she still does not accept the change the intervention into the private life of the child, then you need to have the decision of their own to protect the well-being of families.

Work out your own is also a necessary solution to avoid these unpleasant contradiction, not from the wife and mother of two. In fact, many of his own but is still interested, attentive parents care and fulfill the duty of children, and to avoid the disagreements between husband and mother bride. Thanks for that family life is also fun and smooth.

What about the British mother and mother-in-law loathe each other due to differences in perception, thinking, then also hard way making them or love each other.

The problem here is that the uk and the wife should find the way, chatting to two mothers understand that, instead of doing things that affect the welfare of the child, then she should respect, care and help for the child to have happier lives.

To avoid contradiction becomes severe, then the wife should also avoid sharing the adverse information about the mother-in-law with the mother tongue. The only see disadvantages which do not recognize the advantage of mother-in-law also made British wife have the biased liberal mother-in-law.

Even if necessary there should be a meeting between the two families to share, to exchange the two sides can understand each other better.

The uk can also thanks to two fathers as brothers and sisters in the family to support two sisters settled conflicts between two mothers, as well as the same table with his wife to find out the best solution for all, the ultimate goal is how do we keep the happy little family as well as to preserve good relations between the two large families.

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