With no dowry, I ignored

Know no dowry, my mother-in-law always expletives offend

I was a girl born into a rural family. My family is like many other rural families, very poor, and only know what rice nest clinging to life. To the children from the parents struggled I clam chiu save to parenting College who, for escape from fuck the farmer working laboriously hand-foot mud. Know the hard work of her parents, two sisters and I tried to study and also to the University. I am the eldest sister, a graduate of the University of pedagogy and was out for three years, while my brother is studying in the University in economics. How many years of College, so despite the school work but I'm still not to spend money on making capital. In part because teachers wages too low, partly because I have to use his meager wages amount to spare their parents worry about me, I am learning last year. My parents then after many years of raising their two children studying on no city money. So, the day I married my mother also hinted borrowed to buy me these guys just make gold a dowry, but I disagree, because I don't want to have to spend more money for parents. Even, even a little money happy friends wedding I also included all for parents. So I don't have the wedding day of what they brought home her husband. I am also concerned with her husband and her husband's family, but think people also understand my circumstances. But incredibly, the people, including my husband does not understand that longer-Rails on which to blame, and despised by the full hide, hurt.

My husband refused to take his wife home lay, because his wife's parents that his contempt and family coalition should not give the daughter a dowry brought home her husband

After the wedding, the visitors began courted, mother-in-law asked me: "why not wear a dowry on people?". I also surprise on the question, but also honest said: I don't have a mom, my poor parents should also not have the money to shop for her dowry. How is she a bitch up, calling for the "adamant married without dowry is bad for the baby daughter out to do".?. After her statement, every eye accrues to the mother of my husband and me. I feel really offended, but still trying to make out like that. Since then, I always have the impression not very sympathetic to her husband, but still deliberately fun, to make her happy. But she still does not understand the abstinence, so sometimes still offer what no dowry brought home her husband to keep his, and expressed attitude hurt me and my parents. There were day meal, she told the sisters husband in front of me and all that, poor parents, the real poverty, but when would the married parents must also save buying gold only for the few, not able to be husband went home empty-handed, as children are sister-in-law , bring. See, kids my husband says, his home is easy, as the child you figure it, no dowry then evicted. And many times, have friends or relatives to play her back story-I married my husband home no dowry carries on for them to hear. Have the listener finished, parents feel it is okay to eat feed it, need of a dowry. But there are also people who they do not sympathize, blame my parents have each girl without worry for popular kids, and then treated with silver currency. My husband and I know I am very sad about this, but dare not speak up, because at home my mom my sister and husband to be. Already, many expressed when he was disrespecting my parents, and refused to take me home to his native father because that, my parents didn't give me a dowry brought home her husband, i.e. lack of respect him and respect his family home. I am really extremely distressed because of the deductions and malicious statement of my husband and the people in the family. If know like this, I agreed to my mother bought me a dowry brought home her husband. Thudung ...=