Mommy, don't leave me that go get married!

My husband died 4 years ago after a traffic accident. From which I alone nurture her daughter at age 6, even for many men still make with themselves. Though no announcement but my children are worried full mental and physical both. Then many people told me, no home, no men. After many thoughts, I (39 years old) also try open for a man who has pursued his very long durability. More than 1 year, I decided to proceed to marriage. But when he introduced with his, he joked: "after this I do!" then I shook his head nguầy nguậy and away you don't talk. About the evening told me: "I don't like paying attention it somewhere". Now I have to do to accept him?

The old days she or he has the words ru: "it rained bubbles tossing/Parents married in?". Hear singing that one such throbbing heart. No husband wife as Stork wing alone languished amid blue skies to redevelop for life the storks. It is difficult to overcome with loneliness. Go the extra step to have the fire at adjacent dark lights, at illness then should also go.

But then "the storks" can choose to get "Stork" dare to accept the existence and loving mother Stork's children as his own? Stork drilling his unhappy mother agree for themselves to the other spouse that storks proceed to determine the trigger themselves are targeted to fit his circumstances.

The tangled corners that you're tripping is the common problem of today, when divorce seems to be the trend, women are more active in life, they can do single mothers themselves or to any man they want. And of course, a mother injured children as you will usually pay attention to your child's feelings when choosing the object yourself.

The important thing you need to determine here anymore, your child in age? She mature enough to recognize the disadvantage of parents when there is no announcement of next? Or the prevents guessing of your child is only the kids fondly as the child insists on wanting to keep his toys that don't make way for anyone to play along?

If you were really mature, understanding will surely not what strange about the woman who always need a man to love and take care of. The selfish possession of her own mother, while then you can get married, get married, the mother still lonely forever. You will definitely not be on the dark side of my mother when I also have to take care of his young family.

If your child is still too young, not enough awareness about the lack of affection a man at parents or not, there is a real concern about the relationship of the parents, the words like: "I don't like him to do", "the only one" ... I need to twist up worry because it is possible that the words instinct that any child would also be so when someone wants to "win" the baby's mother.

With this case, the mother should be the bridge and design so that the relationship between his children and his men want to marry more snugly than khắng. The dexterity of the mother, the openness, friendliness and affection of young men that will make your child feel more comfortable. That his family are more emotional, more baby who loves himself, not fight with his mother.

Do not separate out the playing of two people. Your own space somewhere else, but when you have children in the same absolutely not create the distant, isolated ...

If doing so too have lost no time! Her new home I was 8 years old, but very stubborn and hard to convince. In fact the children are just children, yet have mature thoughts about marriage and family problems. Can I take you home, and gradually solve dissensions between the two?

I have a friend, her husband died when her daughter was 3 years old. At that time, the child kept crying remembering my father should she tell the children that "Daddy go work away from home for a while, then one day my father would come play with your". The adopted daughter hope on a nostalgic return to the father should continue to have fun, live happy mother party. But in thought, she still believes that a beautiful day, her father will open the door and run to move up as her memories of him remained in her.

Little girl up 12 years, my friend decided to take a step further, but the little girl determined not to man it up close. She always screams "you expect your father about. Note This is not your father "made adults extremely awkward. However, I still decided to get married. And daughter, of course, loathe the new father, she always lived in hatred, antagonistic and non-compliance. The greater, the more her mother away because her mother thought had betrayed his father, betrayed him and never talked too with the two new father except where necessary. She grew up as a single shadow, sadness. This makes the whole family you stress and I wasn't happy.

Back to your story. If you still insist I follow and leave the wishes of the then script on there repeat in your family? You don't get everything done to your child presses new to accept the truth. As such, easy to create in your baby inhibition and resistance arose.

If you want to be sure to have a happy family, the patient should be done step by step. Everything is never late. You can still by the man it during the process of persuasion. Or if you find yourself unable to do then ask another person completely you sure that his children will follow.=