Living in harmony with the mother's husband is hard!

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Hello readers!

I'm the Flavor of tea, 28 years old, currently living and working in HO CHI MINH CITY Da Nang. Few today read the mind of the sisters in our Lives and share plus the comments of Ms. below I saw almost the sisters often have the perception that the relationship is bride mother-in-law relationships could not reconcile and bride mother-in-law never had real love the ... I think you are very wrong to give this concept.

As a woman, my generation has also married for over 1 year now and now lives with her husband's parents. With experience from myself, I think this thinking of the ball completely true for me a little. Because, in fact, has more than 1 year I lived with my husband, but we never happened, what a contradiction, though is very small.

Before about how Strawberry many people also told me that the mother of my husband is a very formidable pair and fastidious, I am also afraid of living with his mother her husband will bear many of the underprivileged, but not completely so, my husband's parents loved me as your daughter, I even feel the care of his mother for her husband left more than both parents lay.

I also agree with her thoughts saying Tomorrow, would like to receive the loving care of his mother, her husband, then we also have to know the loving, concerned parents husband. The interest he had when just the question of visits very gently, like: last night my mom sleeping right; I've been hurt more than legs yet (my husband's mother suffered rheumatoid arthritis); small gifts or entertainment on 8/3; ... but bring significant and help reinforce, improve capital relationship is complex.

A further experience of I to mother-in-law relationships good which is always a bride should learn the psychology mother-in-law and don't save the flattering compliment, for Mrs. The mother of my husband this year nearly 60 years old and retired, but still prefer to receive the praise of children. I also frequently complimented her style as flattering: his mother wore shirts are wearing very nice, it does not only help the mother look skinnier than (my mother-in-law is slightly bold people) but also help show respect to your skin. Thus, each time going to go buy clothes or any of what appliances yourself she asked me to come along so I choose her.

Because not have small children, so I also try to arrange the work very well. Home I have a housekeeper should all work such as washing, cooking, housecleaning, ... had a housekeeper. So even her husband, mother-in-law and I never have to hand in the action.

I'm feeling quite comfortable in his life, turns out to make Strawberry also simple. Mother-in-law is also the mother, the mother tongue is also the mom, I considered both my mother and mother-in-law thank you so for me a husband who loves her.

I think that those who have yet to reconcile was the relationship who is bride mother-in-law not dexterity, lack of understanding and lack of live art. You see the behavior of yourself, know that the best answer is to improve this complex relationship becomes more simple. Wish I was your life comfortable like I'm there.=